was surfing penny's site and there she posted one very interesting question: 爱情， 什么时候算是死去呢？(when does love die out?)
and out of the 16 comments that were made, most of them mentioned this 2 factors: the absence of trust and communication, and one of them even noted: 其实，死掉的应该不是爱情，而是人的心。" (actually, love doesnt die, its the heart that does.) and all of which i really cant agree more.
love exist not because it is fated to be nor is it destinied that this 2 person are to be together forever-- but because 2 person made effort to make love happen.
sometimes i wonder if its possible to just communicate the good stuff in a relationship, cos obviously no one wants to hear the bad stuff, right? and then i wonder--- is that communication at all? cos communication (from wikipedia) means "Communication is the process whereby information is imparted by a sender to a receiver. " so i guess by information it prolly means a general term and that includes .. well..... everything.. right? so if you only say the good stuff then its prolly like taking one M out of the word, which results in "comunication" which isnt communication at all right??
am i making any sense?
forget sense! anyway, out of hte 16 comments i've found something that i really liked and it goes like this:
当两人无法沟通， when 2 person are unable to communicated,
无法反省自己， unable to self reflect,
无法提升自己， unable to make self improvements,
无法去等待， unable to wait,
彼此伤害的时候， when both are causing each other harm,
爱情就算不死， even when love doesnt actually die,
两人就算再相爱， and even when 2 continue loving each other,
也难以走下去一辈子。 it will still be hard to journey together for life.
一个男人，就算懂得爱你，也不一定懂得珍惜你， the man may love you, but he may not know how to cherish you,
一个男人，懂得珍惜你，就一定懂得爱你。 but when a man cherishes you, you will know for sure that he loves you.
fruit for thought.
emover!
happy monday blues to all!
"Happy yesterday to all, we were born to die!"
